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Ok so I finally had a chance to go out and see the nightlife of Dundee. It was interesting. Read more »

Ok so by some heavy persuasion I ended up in a gay bar here in Austin, Rain, I’m sure many of you know it….and have probably been there yourselves.  I doubt I’ll be back there for a a very long time but I will say I learned a bit while there.  I feel like I better understand what is going through women’s minds as they are at bars. If it’s aything like what was going through my mind I may have found just what I needed to finally ‘get’ what’s going on in some womens’ minds.

Upon entering the bar it seemed like a pretty cool place and my friend met some people he knew so I was more at ease at that point.  Everything was fine and dandy till my friend went off to do some shots.  At that point I’m became very aware that I was alone in a gay bar. I realized that the bar was filled with 80% people I had no interest in talking to and that the majority of the 20%(The females) I wanted to talk to probably didn’t want to talk to me. Even if they did I felt mad wierd about approaching a chick at a gay bar since she would quite likely be gay. So I’m sitting there mentally praying that some random straight chick strikes up a conversation with me…any chick just to avoid it being some guy instead.

Unfortunately for me I’m mad attractive, so after a bit some dude tried to talk to me.  At that point I had a choice; Do I become a crazy asshole and randomly ignore this guy or be a decent human being and respond. I responded.  The guy keeps talking and I’m trying to give every possible ‘I don’t want to talk’ body language signals I can think of…short of just pushing him to the ground or something crazy.  None of those were apparently working. I’m also just waiting for this guy to ask if I’m gay or to hopefully get the idea and just walk away.  None of those things happened.  Eventually my friend came back and the guy asked about my orientation. I said I was straight and that was about the last bit of conversation we had.  That kinda reminds me of when I hear a girl mention a boyfriend…at that point the conversation is usually over.

Anway, all this made me realize that most girls at bars and clubs are probably thinking something similar to how I was. I bet most would love for almost any decent guy to come talk to them to at-least help them avoid the weirdos that they really really don’t want to talk with. With this knowledge I’ll definitly be talking to more women at bars..if not for me then atleast for their benefit……unless I’m the wierdo in which case I’ll keep my eyes open for signs of ‘ Get the hell away from me’ body language.

On the bright side my friend did get approached by some hot straight chick. So I’m sure he’ll be heading back to that place occasionally.

I had some free time and some thoughts on my mind, so those thoughts get spoken into the camera.